Selfless love

Here’s a true life story that I’m going to share with you - Selfless Love.
If this little child could do it, so could YOU! Here you go:
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My wife called, ‘How long will you be with that newspaper? Will you come here and make your darling daughter eat her food?
I tossed the paper away and rushed to the scene. My only daughter, Sindu, looked frightened; tears were welling up in her eyes. In front of her was a bowl filled to its brim with curd rice. Sindu is a nice child, quite intelligent for her age.
I cleared my throat and picked up the bowl. ‘Sindu, darling, why don’t you take a few mouthful of this curd rice? Just for Dad’s sake, dear’.
Sindu softened a bit and wiped her tears with the back of her hands. ‘Ok, Dad. I will eat - not just a few mouthfuls, but the whole lot of this. But, you should…’ Sindu hesitated. ‘Dad, if I eat this entire curd Rice, will you give me whatever I ask for?’
‘Promise’. I covered the pink soft hand extended by my daughter with mine, and clinched the deal. Now I became a bit anxious. ‘Sindu, dear, you shouldn’t insist on getting a computer or any such expensive items. Dad does not have that kind of money right now. Ok?’
‘No, Dad. I do not want anything expensive’. Slowly and painfully, she finished eating the whole quantity. I was silently angry with my wife and my mother for forcing my child to eat something that she detested. After the ordeal was through, Sindu came to me with her eyes wide with expectation. All our attention was on her. ‘Dad, I want to have my head shaved off, this Sunday!’ was her demand.
‘Atrocious!’ shouted my wife, ‘A girl child having her head shaved off? Impossible!’
‘Never in our family!’ My mother rasped. ‘She has been watching too much of television. Our culture is getting totally spoiled with these TV programs!’
‘Sindu, darling, why don’t you ask for something else? We will be sad seeing you with a clean-shaven head.’
‘Please, Sindu, why don’t you try to understand our feelings?’ I tried to plead with her.
‘Dad, you saw how difficult it was for me to eat that Curd Rice’. Sindu was in tears. ‘And you promised to grant me whatever I ask for. Now, you are going back on your words. Was it not you who told me the story of King Harishchandra, and its moral that we should honor our promises no matter what?’
It was time for me to call the shots. ‘Our promise must be kept.’
‘Are you out of your mind?’ chorused my mother and wife.
‘No. If we go back on ourpromises, she will never learn to honour her own. Sindu, your wish will be fulfilled.’
With her head clean-shaven, Sindu had a round-face, and her eyes looked big and beautiful.
On Monday morning, I dropped her at her school. It was a sight to watch my hairless Sindu walking towards her classroom. She turned around and waved. I waved back with a smile. Just then, a boy alighted from a car, and shouted, ‘Sinduja, please wait for me!’ What struck me was the hairless head of that boy. ‘May be, that is the in-stuff’, I thought.
‘Sir, your daughter Sinduja is great indeed!’ Without introducing herself, a lady got out of the car, and continued, ‘that boy who is walking along with your daughter is my son Harish. He is suffering from… leukemia’. She paused to muffle her sobs. ‘Harish could not attend the school for the whole of the last month. He lost all his hair due to the side effects of the chemotherapy. He refused to come back to school fearing the unintentional but cruel teasing of the schoolmates. Sinduja visited him last week, and promised him that she will take care of the teasing issue. But, I never imagined she would sacrifice her lovely hair for the sake of my son!
Sir, you and your wife are blessed to have such a noble soul as your daughter.’
I stood transfixed and then, I wept. ‘My little Angel, you are teaching me how selfless real love is!’
The happiest people on this planet are not those who live on their own terms but are those who change their terms for the ones whom they love !!
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If this story made you realise what is selfless love, then give out your love to someone out there! They will be glad to receive it from you!

Important in weiqi

online competition are played base on respect n trust of ur opponent becoz u cant see each other face to face....becoz of that many ppl tends to ask stronger player to play for them...y? first its broke the respect n trust bond between the other player....second of all, if ppl were to see that this happen n if they report to the higher ups wont that spoil ur image and if u r from some famous school, wont that spoil the school image too, here intergity is all broken, the higher ups will not believe in that famous school again, what if they break this kind of rules again for other competition like competition only for beginners, the higher ups will think that the famous school is trying to cheat again by sending in a player who wasnt a beginners....yes intergity no more.....ppl will say so what its just a competition, ya its true but that defeat the purpose of having this competition....imaging all the ppl start asking stronger players to play for them, wont this comp be meaningless, its just like stronger player playing against stronger player but just that in the end the one that asked the stronger player will get the prize n so y is there a need for a comp for the weaker players....n the rules didnt state that this kind of things cant happen becoz this comp was formed base on trust that the players wont cheat............................i just cant understand y they can still do it n laugh away about it.....its just so sad n angry.....

No names where mention in the making of this post....

Sigh, about lanke

i did something we called a taboo, i wasnt thinking about weiqi in the 3rd round, instead i'm thinking about other things n that made me lose that round "happily" which means happy lose :(

i'm so sorry! but my personal life got to wait, wait until i graduated....from now on, its all weiqi n that screwed up school homeworks, tests and projects...I WANT TO BECOME STRONGER!!!!!

polite- for ming ze kian boon if u got see this...please, please be come one dan before that, please no more fooling around le, becoz i can see that sp has grown to outstand us....LETS WORK HARD TOWARDS IT, n maybe i will let u teach the juniors from now on is it ok? or do i need to finish what i started?

i understand now, i got to take it slowly de

Her

I have always told myself that i will only want to play weiqi until i'm done with weiqi course but......whats going to happen to me? a girl asked me out, at first i was seriously shock n cant reply her but the next day i said ok n i'm interested in her too, but i'm scared, i dunno if this is just a friend to friend going out or is she interested in me too, i believe love is a long time commitment n that love is forever, i dun want to have a short term relationship like after i go ns we broke up or maybe two yrs or 1 yrs later......if want, i want to be with her forever i dun like the feeling of breaking up(althought i dun have GF yet) i want to know her more, be with her, share her dreams, goals, happiness, sadness and any other things related to her.....i'm i falling in love? is that how i should feel? i dunno, please share with me guys what u no..thanks! n i'm going out with her the wk after lanke cup.....n guys who every no her, please, please dun say it out yet ok......

What do i do?

what do i do when a girl ask me out for a date?....basically i said yes but what do i do.....wakane

Taiwan trip second last day

This is the score board, as u can see taiwan sended in alot of players most of them are young kids but still can thrash us....







my four friends i made in taiwan, xin wen from brunei, art from thailand, jimmy from malaysia and "around the world" from macua i dunno how to make up his chinese name...



i see the menu i sian diao, mostly is fish type food



this old man is from japan 80+ yrs old le still can play so well, for that he got a award for the old man



the only female from in this comp, she actually from korean came here to study go dunno y



the youngest kid in this comp n i to played him nearly won :(





the top 10th



3rd, 2nd



1st, they are all from korea







looks like this is the only edible food





after the dinner me n my friends decided we should go to shi lin n by bus since we want to try out taiwan's public bus.......nothing much really just that there is no aircon....



first stop is this air gun shop, u pay i forgot how much to get to fire one round of bullets to shoot the balloons n i will get something if u can shoot every balloon where u are standing n the gun is really heavy like real gun i think



M16 withough the magazine didnt use this ex-er



this is the xxl chicken, i thought its like the one in singapore but here still got the bones de, not very shuang



darts, each of us use one set n xin wen is the sharp shooter here, he got a prize....



basketball throwing comp within the three of them, this is "around the worlds score"



this is jimmy's and this is xin wen's



this is the store where i brough oyster mee sua n smelly tofu



dude the smelly tofu sucks to the core man, the skin not crispy n the tofu not smelly lor....